10 timeless reads to escape the daily grind 

Ah, the daily grind. Isn’t it just so easy to slip into it? You wake up, brush your teeth (hopefully), make coffee, get on the bus, work, get on the bus, workout, make dinner… And so it goes, day in, day out.

I’m a huge advocate for adding variety to your life. Whether it’s through diet, exercise, socialising, nail colour… But sometimes, even changing up your morning coffee order isn’t enough to make you feel alive. And then you are faced with those days you just want to pack a suitcase and genuinely escape.

Reading is a powerful practice. It’s been a pretty uncertain and unsettling time in the history of our world, and many of us are in search of a deeper meaning. And think about it, when was the last time a book completely blew your mind? Wouldn’t you like to feel that way again? So consumed by a story you couldn’t put the book down, or stop think about it?

 

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This year, I made it my resolution to read at least one book a month. For someone who often finds themselves on instagram instead of reaching for my bedside read, I’ve done pretty well. [I’ve read 10 books, and we’re in September!] And the best reads were those that made me forget who and where I was, or reminded me how amazing life can be, or taught me a valuable concept that I could apply to my life. They’ve all left a lasting impression, and changed the way I see the world.

I love a good book recommendation, so I thought I’d put together a list of my own favourites. I would love love love for you to contribute and drop your own favourites in the comments!

Happy reading!

 

1. when breath becomes air, Paul Kalanithi

 

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Well this was an emotional read. If you’re in the mood for a dramatic introspection and exploring the journey of life and death through the eyes of a neurosurgeon turned terminal cancer patient, this one’s for you. I marvelled, I smiled, and yes, I even cried a little bit. A great reminder that life is beautiful but fleeting, and that science and faith are not polar opposites.

Read when: you’re experiencing change in your life, or are trying to find meaning to your life. It was also a great plane read, although make sure you bring along some tissues!

 

2. the pillars of the earth, Ken Follett

 

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I didn’t think I would enjoy this brick of a book so much. It took me a couple of months to work through, but I couldn’t wait to jump into bed to read another chapter of this great story. Set in England in the 12th century, we follow the story of Tom Builder, a stonemason, and his family. Political intrigue, cathedral vernacular and romantic encounters are to be expected! It was historical fiction at its best for me; I learned a lot about English history and found the intricate storyline very captivating.

Read when: you’re feeling mentally sharp and clear, but need a break from non-fiction. This’ll keep you engaged, but not mentally exhausted from information overload!

 

3. a thousand splendid suns, Khaled Hosseini

 

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I feel like this one’s quickly become another modern classic – it’s from the same author as The Kite Runner, which I also highly recommend. A beautiful story of friendship and a raw depiction of the lives of many Afghan women under the Taliban regime. Feelings of unjustice and anger were frequent for me when I read this; it’s a powerful story!

Read when: you’ve lost faith in humanity a bit. Yes, it’s a terrible story, but also a stark reminder that if we stick together, we can conquer anything. Especially women!

 

4. eat, pray, love, Elizabeth Gilbert

 

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Maybe cliché, but when I read it at only 16, I was completely transported. Of course, I was nowhere near a mid-life crisis or working through any adult stuff, but I feel this book has shaped my ability to be aware of overcommitment and taking things too seriously. Because at any point, I could pack a bag and leave for an Indian ashram, or flee to the Mediterranean for a culinary adventure. It’s a great story of what’s come to matter the most in my life – to eat well, to embrace a spiritual practice and to cultivate deep relationships.

Read when: you’ve got any kind of life crisis, or need a reminder that you’re capable of anything. I will not be held accountable for the spontaneous holidays or trips that may ensue!

5. freakonomics, Steven D. Levitt & Stephen J. Dubner

 

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I also read this one in high school, after it being recommended by my economics teacher. Little did I know economics would become a career for me! Economics is everywhere – from drug dealing to the bagel industry. This is a highly approachable and entertaining read for all of us who enjoy understanding the underlying infrastructure of society. And if you’re not sure, just listen to an episode of the Freakonomics podcast.

Read when: you want to learn something new, in a fun and entertaining way, or need a new repertoire of dinner party anecdotes to tell. Guaranteed winner!

 

6. the handmaid’s tale, Margaret Atwood

 

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Anything dystopian – count me in. This was a powerful read; devastating, disempowering at times, frightening and very eye-opening. I also thought the recent TV show did it justice. Patriarchy is taken to its extreme in this read; women are turned into baby-making machines and stripped of their rights, names and independence. It also shocked me to be reminded of how quickly and easily society can spin out of control.

Read when: NOW! This is so incredibly relevant, given current discussions on women’s rights and gender equality.

 

7. never let me go, Kazuo Ishiguro

 

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This was a weird, memorable book. I don’t know why it was so impactful. Another dystopian story, set in an English boarding school, where children turn out to be clones designed to be organ donors. It’s a story of friendship, rebellion and acceptance all at once, but not for the faint-hearted!

Read when: not when you’re feeling down. I remember it being moody and dark at times. Best read in fewer sittings, since it is so weirdly intense!

 

8. the help, Kathryn Stockett

 

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Fun, light, uplifting and also dead serious. I couldn’t recommend it more (as I do the film!). Set in Mississippi in the 60s, the story is that of Skeeter, the daughter of a white family, and Aibileen, a maid, who collaboratively write a newspaper column on household tips and develop a wonderful yet challenging friendship. There’s so much tenderness and truth to this story!

Read when: it’s the summer and you want an easy read, or an autumn book to snuggle up with on a rainy night!

 

9. wild: from lost to found on the pacific crest trail, Cheryl Strayed

 

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Another cliché classic – Cheryl Strayed hikes the Pacific Crest Trail and finds herself, has many footwear issues and makes peace with the loss of her mother. I stayed up all night reading parts of it, because it’s easy to read, and yet so gripping. I think we can all relate to a character who’s feeling a little lost and embarks on an extreme adventure to self-realize.

Read when: you’re lacking inspiration, or need some motivation for a challenge you’ve set yourself (both physical and non-physical!).

 

10. attending: medicine, mindfulness and humanity, Ronald Epstein

 

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A great read relating to my field of study (Health Economics!) on the importance of ‘mindful medicine’. Ronald Epstein discusses some key principles of becoming a better clinician by leaning in and being more responsive to their patients, embracing their own humanity to make patients feel supported. It was also a reminder that we have a responsibility towards our doctors to shake up the status quo and make them listen when we’re not feeling cared for!

Read when: you’ve lost faith in modern medicine, like I had!

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june favourites

Happy July and happy summer! It’s been a busy month, filled with some exciting changes and revelations. Read on to find out! 🙂

mindful shopping

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This is definitely easier said than done if you’re edging on compulsive shopping, which many of us do without realising. It looks good on the mannequin, or it seems useful at the time, but when you get home you realise maybe you didn’t need it after all. Or you use it once and then it gathers dust at the back of a cupboard. I’ve done a lot of work on myself to reduce my attachment to stuff, but I’ve always been frugal, so it hasn’t been excessively hard for me to be more selective in my shopping. I had run out of summer clothes to wear and so went on many more shopping trips than I would have in the past, and most of the time, I went home empty handed. It’s life-changing to walk out of a shop knowing you didn’t feel pressured by the shop assistant, having carefully thought through any purchases (‘is it useful’, ‘is it durable’, is it worth the price’, ‘will it match my style’…).

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this is how you pack exactly what you need

Holiday season is upon us once more! I’m super hyped becauseI have actually planned a couple of trips this year, which means my suitcase will be more than just a weekend bag for a few days spent with a friend. Or will it? Is packing a huge suitcase, 5 pairs of shoes and both a hair straightener and curling iron really necessary?

Having less is seriously cool. I’m no longer worried about stuff not matching in my wardrobe, or that pink jacket I never wear: if I’m not using it, I’m not keeping it.

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But then comes your exotic trip, and you think you need the entire asos swimwear department to survive it. (Just a piece of friendly advice before we start: you don’t.) I take more long weekend trips than weeklong holidays so I’ve become accustomed to packing a small carry-on and making the most of what I bring! Here’y how you can apply underpacking to longer holidays like I am this year!

1. Think ahead

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If you’re not one of those people that starts packing or thinking about packing at least 2 weeks before you leave, start now. Honestly, this is a huge help – ask yourself where you’ll be, what you’ll be doing and how often, think of what you already have and what should be replaced or bought for the occasion. I’m leaving for Italy in a couple of days for a super casual poolside reading and city exploring break. Realistically, only 3 scenarios are likely: a day out, for which I’ll need some comfortable, functional and breathable, a day at the pool, for which I’ll need swimwear and a cover up and a classier option for the evening to wear to a nice dinner. My make-up and hair routine can be adjusted accordingly by increasing the intensity rather than the amount of products used. Instead of just slapping on some mascara and eyebrows, I might spend longer on some eyeliner or contouring. And then there’s the airport days, where you should think of wearing something comfortable and layerable, for example the only thicker jacket you’re bringing in case of colder weather, and to keep yourself warm on the flight, over a t-shirt you can wear on a city day later on. Write it down, draw it out, whatever you need to do: just think!

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how to make the best gut-healing oatmeal

Oatmeal, porridge, whatever you wanna call it. One thing: treat it like risotto.

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Oats are like the perfect middle-ground between incredibly indulgent and incredibly nutritious.

I was probably born with a spoonful of oats in my mouth. Wherever I was, at home, at school, on holidays, oats always made an appearance. Except my oat consumption has changed drastically since those dairy and microwave days. I actually used to pour cornflakes on top of my porridge. That crunch was everything. Now it just comes in a different shape (i.e. spoonfuls of PB)!

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february favourites

February has been a beautiful month. I’ve been feeling energised and replenished, rested and peaceful. I’ve tried to reduce stress as much as possible, and I’m proud to say it has improved my quality of life enormously already!

I’m not a winter-lover. I love snow and Christmas vibes, but once January comes to a close, I am ready for spring. I’m ready to see trees and flowers blossom and to wear lighter coats. And put my UGG boots away. But this year, I’m trying to embrace the seasons, and I suggest you try, too! Seasons come and go for a reason, and nature is constantly changing. It’s a cycle of death and rebirth, and we should honour it rather than let it pass us by 🙂

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As always, my (slightly) obsessive nature has ensured that this past month’s favourites were very easy and obvious to put together in this post! Let me know what you’ve been loving, I’m dying to know! 😀

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Undercut side braid inspo

I don’t know if it’s because I’m channeling my inner Viking or trying to find a substitute for shaving one side of my head [eek!], but these side braids have been stuck to my head most of the month. Having short hair means you have to be relatively creative in tying it up, and I’ve said goodbye to The Topknot aka that shaggy pile of hair that is not-so-artfully tied up when I’m exercsing/working/doing the dishes to keep my front layers out of the way. Yeah. Not glamorous. These half french braids are way easier than they look, very functional and I always get complimented on them 🙂 Continue reading “february favourites”

witchful yoga accessories

It’s day 2 of #healthoween! Are you excited yet?

In case you missed my previous post, you can find my old order blood vampire chia jam recipe here. Because, hey, first we food, then we meditate. Amirite?

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I thought it would be fun to live up to the stereotype of yoga + meditation. Incense, sacred tools, chakra alignment, candles, strange contortions… You know the drill. Outsiders think we are either completely off the hook, or mystical creatures that can contact ‘the other side’. Ultimately, the goal of ‘yoga’ is enlightenment – now, I don’t know about you, but I haven’t met very many enlightened people! All yogis are striving to be the best version of themselves. And that means making time for play, too.

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10 signs you’ve become an uber foodie

Happy Thursday everyone! The summer is coming to an end, and for some reason, I have been feeling so creative this month in the kitchen! I have been making and testing plenty of new things ready for the autumn, and you can expect to see a lot more food on the BARE. blog. Lots of unsweetened, pumpkin spiced things, in particular. Nom.

So it came to my attention my foodi-ness has reached a new high. I’ve tried plantain. I like seaweed. I snack on homemade sauerkraut. I know how to make cashew cheese.

Foodies are a unique breed of people. Food is at the very heart of our lives, and nothing makes us happier than tasting new foods and testing new kitchen tricks. I thought I would round up 10, pretty good indicators that you’ve become an uber foodie.

you’ve come to like food shopping more than clothes shopping

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You would rather shop for a bagful of fresh and vibrant vegetables than have to try on a new dress. It’s so much more satisfying, looking at all those beautiful leaves and roots.

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